I am a big fan of Reddit. Ever since I closed all my socials down at the beginning of the year, I have loved going on Reddit and reading everyone’s stories.

I just read one now from a males point of view stating he hates porn and its bad for us and makes women feel insecure and makes us hate our bodies. I would add that besides this post, I have seen and heard a lot about how women supposedly hate porn and that it makes us not feel good enough because we are not like the woman in porn. I fully understand if you do not like porn, but as I said in my comment on Reddit, if that is the case, I suggest you don’t watch it. Seems simple to me.

Now as the title of this blog states, not all women hate porn. Some of us love it. I myself enjoy watching it with a partner as well as on my own, which is good since I do not have a partner. I even have the XNXX porn app on my phone and a huge box of sex toys under my bed.

My point being, some women love being openly sexual and love to be able to watch porn and the stigma behind watching porn has got to go. Please do not get confused between what is legal and what is not. Obviously I am against any and all kinds of illegal porn/abuse, but that is not what I am talking about in this post. This blog is solely about how it is so annoying that people still think for a women to be pure, or to like herself or not have low self esteem issues that she cannot enjoy things like sex and pleasure and watching porn.

Now I would hate to start off my blog sounding like some crazy sex manic, even though I’m sure all my friends would probably agree with that given how I talk in my everyday life. I do this because I am the most literal honest person you will ever met and I tend to say exactly what I’m thinking, and no topic is off limits with me given my dream is to be a storyteller.

I have many thoughts and beliefs and feelings about sex, love and everything in between and so many of my beliefs have changed in the past number of years as I continue to grow and evolve and learn more and more about myself. I even went celibate for a year and a half to fully go within and learn more about me. Thankfully the box under my bed is full of so many toys I didn’t exactly miss out. The only reason I am not still celibate is because I met someone who said everything I wanted to hear, told me he wanted to be with me and so I broke the vow. That lasted two weeks. That is another story that I will very much be writing about.

The point is, woman can be extremely sexual whether with someone, or not. And for those of us who love sex, porn and in my case BDSM and all things Kink, I would just like to say, please stop judging those of use like this, because we are not bad people. It took me years to get to a place where I could finally be my complete true self without feeling judged, so hopefully I can help others, by talking about the fact its ok to be different and to like things the world says you shouldn’t X