It’s shit like this that needs to change
Everyone truly needs to be taught to love themselves first and foremost and stop looking for love in the next person
Or thing or job or whatever it may be
When we put our happiness in something outside of ourselves that happiness disappears if the object some day is no longer apart of your life.
I want to help others see how worthy they are. How worthy you are dear reader. And it’s not like I’m saying that I’m perfect or know it all because I don’t. In fact I share all of time about how often I fuck up. Just today, I’m seeing and learning more lessons based on dumb stuff I’ve done.
But I think something that is becoming more and more important to me is helping people understand that being alone isn’t a bad thing. That putting yourself first and being unwilling to settle is actually a great thing. I mean if you truly don’t believe in yourself that you are truly worthy of unconditional love, how do you honestly expect the next person to?
For years, most of my life, I tried to fill the void inside of me. The blackness that couldn’t feel love. I definitely didn’t love myself. I have struggled with even finding myself worthy of having a place in this world extremely difficult right up until recently. I mean, I write r make videos every day now so it’s easy to keep track.
I know I am going to keep being tested because that’s how we grow. But I feel safe in my ability to now understand that I am worthy, wanted and loved exactly as I am. I believe in me. I am able to recognise when darkness is trying to get to me and see the situation as I need to. I forgive myself for my mistakes becauses that’s what they are.
I believe in every single person out there. All of you. I believe every person deserves to be happy and feel love. I believe it starts with true unconditional love for yourself.
It may seem scary and hard to begin with but I promise you, it’s worth it 💞💕